I believe that a good portion of women who read erotica are not simply attracted to the titillating sex. Oh they definitely enjoy it, but it's not the driving factor that keeps them coming back time and again for more.
No, I think that most women are attracted to the WAY the characters in these lusty stories have sex. Again, I'm not talking about the actual act, because while most are intrigued by the bold scenarios erotic writers create for them, the reality is is that the majority wouldn't dare try even ten percent of what they are reading on the pages (and neither would the writers!). No, the thing that really draws women in and helps them connect with these hot and bold women is the unapologetic way they have and enjoy sex.
The women you will find in this anthology and most others, are not apologetic about their sexual desires. They have given into their lust and are experiencing sex IN THE MOMENT. They aren't harnessing their needs and wants with outdated values or with the worry of what somebody is going to think of them. They aren't worried about how they look or how well they perform. In fact, the sexual experience for these women is just that--an experience to be savored--and not some service call. They are all in and expecting and getting the pleasure they deserve. Their approach to sex is experimental, curious, adventurous, spontaneous, empowering and joyful. They allow themselves to give into temptation--some with strangers, others with their most significant others. Most of all they are pleasing themselves and their lovers without judgment and/or guilt.
Think about your sex life and that of the women you read between the covers of your erotic tales. Compare them not necessary by act but by attitude. Learn from them how to find your sexual truth and build around that truth a sultry, lustful, healthy sex life.
Just my erotic thought. Now what's yours? Comment below.
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